{"id":221,"date":"2004-12-04T21:46:57","date_gmt":"2004-12-04T21:46:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/?p=221"},"modified":"2004-12-04T21:46:57","modified_gmt":"2004-12-04T21:46:57","slug":"baby-boy-number-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/?p=221","title":{"rendered":"Baby Boy Number 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411ChaseWithHairBig.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Chase Kenneth Wootton\" src=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411ChaseWithHairSmall.jpg\" width=\"190\" height=\"253\" align=\"right\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t really expect to find myself in the hospital just after midnight,<br \/>\nearly on a Sunday morning.  The wife had emerged from the bathroom<br \/>\njust a short while ago.  Her water had broken.  It was time to go.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t anticipate that it would happen so fast.  It seemed only moments ago<br \/>\nwhen the babysitter for Cam arrived.  I packed the truck.<br \/>\nI threw the camera in the back.  I added the new car seat in its<br \/>\nproper spot.  Less than four hours later, 7 centimeters was the<br \/>\nmeasurement of interest.<\/p>\n<p>And I really didn&#8217;t know what to do with myself when the doctor<br \/>\nand nurses began to move with a sense of urgency.  The little<br \/>\nheartbeat emitting from the nearby monitor was straining.<br \/>\nContractions made it dangerously slow.  I found myself slightly<br \/>\nout of the way while the hospital staff took the necessary precautions.<\/p>\n<p>My wife found her bed titled &#8212; her head lower than her feet.  An oxygen<br \/>\nmask was placed over her mouth.  The strained lines that crossed across her<br \/>\nface weren&#8217;t the result labor pains.<br \/>\nIn a fit of courage, she pleaded with the doctor.  &#8220;Tell me what I<br \/>\ncan do to help my baby.  I&#8217;ll do anything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The doctor replied in a calm voice, &#8220;Just try not to wander into the<br \/>\nhallway.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Shortly thereafter, things settled down.  My wife&#8217;s blood pressure<br \/>\nrebounded.  The baby&#8217;s heartbeat stabalized.  Active labor was about<br \/>\nto begin.  We waited for things to remain calm for a bit.<br \/>\nTwenty minutes followed.  The quiet beep of the baby&#8217;s heart kept<br \/>\nus company.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411ChaseBodyShotBig.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Chase, Taking it Easy\" src=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411ChaseBodyShotSmall.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"267\" align=\"left\" hspace=\"3\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We were relieved when things began in earnest.  The wife was prepared &#8211;<br \/>\neven excited &#8211; to begin pushing.  She barely got the chance.  After a<br \/>\ncouple of pushes, I stole a glimpse of a small tuft of hair.  A few<br \/>\npushes later, the doctor grabbed a pair of forceps and told the wife<br \/>\nhe&#8217;d take things from here.<\/p>\n<p>Before I knew it, my second son lay in my wife&#8217;s arms.  He cried, providing<br \/>\ntwo parents the desired assurance that he was ok.  I followed his lead.<br \/>\nChase Kenneth Wootton, meet world.  World, meet my youngest son.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve tried to write this blog, a chronicle of the birth of my second<br \/>\nson, several times.  Each time the events of the birth sound<br \/>\ndire, something that will likely surprise those who&#8217;ve talked to me since.<br \/>\nIn casual conversation, I tend to dismiss the harried events of the actual<br \/>\nbirth rather quickly.  However, when putting things in writing, I can&#8217;t<br \/>\nseem to dodge the sparks of fear and worry that preceded the little gift<br \/>\nfrom God that followed.<\/p>\n<p>I suppose it is a reminder of just how lucky we are.  From what I understand,<br \/>\nall the concern I felt was not a mistake.  It wasn&#8217;t just a feeling brought<br \/>\non my watching scurrying folks in hospital scrubs.  We were later told<br \/>\nthat a nearby room had been prepped for an emergency C-section, just in case.<\/p>\n<p>God has blessed us.  The Wootton clan now counts 4 in their number.<br \/>\nWe are, by all official measures, a family.  We no longer<br \/>\ntalk of our child.  We speak of &#8220;our boys&#8221;.  We fret over &#8220;the kids&#8221;.<br \/>\nCritical mass has been reached, filling our house, heart, and<br \/>\nlives rather nicely.<\/p>\n<p>I believe the biggest surprise in the end, if you speak to my wife and I, is<br \/>\nthat this family thing happened at all.  Three years ago, we would have given anything for<br \/>\nwhat we have now.  Two years of trying with no results ensured we felt<br \/>\nthe grips of despair.  Now we pick our little dreams up for hugs and nestle<br \/>\nthem close just because we can.  There isn&#8217;t a better feeling in the<br \/>\nworld.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411WoottonFamilyBig.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"The Wootton Family\" src=\"http:\/\/plan.thewoottons.com\/archives\/images\/200411WoottonFamilySmall.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"202\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t really expect to find myself in the hospital just after midnight, early on a Sunday morning. The wife had emerged from the bathroom just a short while ago. Her water had broken. It was time to go. I didn&#8217;t anticipate that it would happen so fast. 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